Have you ever caught yourself undervaluing your worth and allowing others to define it? I have. However, I broke free from these self-limiting beliefs and embraced the unwavering truth: ‘I am not negotiating my worth with anyone anymore. I am worthy, always have been and always will be.’

Society often conditions us to seek validation and affirmation from external sources. We may find ourselves constantly seeking approval from others, comparing ourselves to unrealistic standards, and compromising our self-worth in the process. This detrimental cycle can leave us feeling deflated and insignificant, as if our worth is directly dependent on the opinions and judgments of others. But it’s time to shift our perspective.

We must recognise and affirm that our worth is not negotiable. It is not a variable that fluctuates based on the whims and expectations of those around us. Our worth is inherent, unchangeable, and constant, regardless of external validation or recognition. We are deserving of love, respect, and happiness by virtue of simply being human.

By internalising this empowering realisation, we open ourselves to a world of self-acceptance and self-love. We no longer need to prove ourselves to others or seek their approval. We reclaim our power and take ownership of our worth, understanding that it is not up for debate or negotiation.

When we fully embrace our own worthiness, we radiate a newfound confidence and strength. We become less affected by the opinions and judgments of others, recognising that their views do not define us. Our self-esteem flourishes as we embrace our unique qualities and abilities, celebrating the genuine essence that sets us apart.

When we choose to assert our worth, we inspire and empower others to do the same. By embodying this mindset, we become beacons of self-assurance and resilience, attracting those who seek to uplift and honour our worth. We create strong, healthy relationships that are built on a foundation of mutual respect and appreciation, rather than compromise and self-doubt.

So, let us take a stand and declare that everyone should feel this way. We must encourage each other to embrace our worthiness without hesitation or reservation. Let’s support one another as we break free from the chains of external validation and reclaim our intrinsic value.

Remember, you are worthy. Always have been. Always will be. Your value is immeasurable and non-negotiable. Embrace it, celebrate it, and live your life unapologetically.